Spirituality, on your own terms.

When the Winds Chose Me

The Ancient Greeks watched the spin of the bronze weather vane to understand the head winds. Civilizations since have made meaning from that directional guide swirling in the storms. And now I am coming to understand how my own weather vane has shown up across the stages of my life – the way my heart, mind, body and spirit have survived every challenge, keeping me grounded and true.

I recently explored my shifting perspective around my level of emotion and how it organically comes upon me like a shocking slap in the face of a frigid sea gust. I say organically today but over the years others have scolded and mocked my “overly dramatic” and “too emotional” frequent tears. I have been swept by emotion more times than I could name. Back then, I didn’t have language for any of it. And if you’re…

My Personal Jesus (and Other Early Clues)

I grew up the picture of a firstborn, white, middle‑class daughter of a Cleveland Lutheran and a Southern Baptist belle from Arkansas—two people who started a family in Southern California in the 70s and carried their generational trauma well into the 80s (and really still going strong today!). Translation: I loved New Wave and Rock‑n‑Roll, and I questioned everything.

To their credit, my parents tried out nearly every Christian denomination in our community, hoping one might feel like home. I could write a separate editorial about why none of those churches stuck for my parents, but this story is about my personal Jesus—yes, the Depeche Mode reference is intentional. My parents never forced church on us but probably took us only because they thought they were supposed to. Maybe because of their own religious trauma, they gave us space to choose our own…

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